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Tuesday, February 16, 2010

The Bad Omen

It all started a week back, I reconnected with an old on-line friend, with whom I had lost touch for almost 3 years. We had a pretty awesome reunion. Both were more than happy to be back in touch. When everything was going just great, my on-line friend disappeared. There were no updates about my friend's status on any of the social networking sites I knew of nor there was any reply to my messages. I was worried and even had very disturbed sleep during those days. A couple of days later my friend got in touch and I learnt that she had met with an accident! Later we had a fight over a petty reason and we stopped talking to each other.

A few days later, one night I was taking my regular walk in the streets near my home. I was lost in some thoughts and I was crossing the road in an absent mind and got in front of a two wheeler. The rider just smiled at me and passed away and I continued my walk. While I was retracing back to my home, I saw a crowd near the place I had this incident with two wheeler. It looked like the crowd was surrounding a person lying on the corner of the street. I peeped through the crowd and tried to catch the glimpse of the person. I was shocked to see that it was the same face which gave me smile couple of minutes before. The person was lying unconscious and I could see traces of blood on his shirt but couldn't tell where it had dropped from. I was afraid and like a coward I left the crowd and the person. I still do not know what happened to that stranger.

Now this happened last night. I was supposed to go to my sister's place to stay overnight there as my brother in law was out of station. I was bit reluctant to go as it was too far from my office and had to take several buses to reach the place. Moreover I had evening meeting at my office and it was going to be late. But somehow I managed to reached the place. My 4 and half year old Nephew overjoyed to receive me. He was jumping all around the home with happy and I had warned him to not to get hurt while doing so. I had had my dinner at office as it was late and I decided to prepare my bed straight away as the next day I was supposed to start early for office. I usually prefer sleeping on carpet and I started spreading the plastic carpet on the floor of the Hall. My sister went to room to fetch me a blanket and I was getting pillows from the Sofa. Just then my overjoyed - jumping nephew jumped on the carpet, slipped and fall on his face, hitting his forehead to the edge of the wall. As a normal reaction I started shouting at him and went to pick him up. When I turned turned his face he was screaming with pain as he had got a 1 inch vertical cut at the centre of his forehead. My sister came running from the room and she was panicked, she's usually more emotional and this time it was worse. My nephew was bleeding and there was blood all over his face. I was dumb stuck and and quickly grabbed him and started running out semi naked without any slippers. One of my neighbour listening to our screaming was ready with his two wheeler. We took my nephew to nearest clinic and got cleaned his wounds cleaned. I had kept my hand on his forehead while we shifted him and my whole arm was covered with his blood. After the initial cleaning of wound the clinic doctor bandaged the wound and asked us to take him to a speciality hospital to get the wound stitched. We had another neighbour who had got his car to take us to hospital and we got the wound stitched and took him back home. I had called up my another elder sister to come over to console my sister.
My nephew is better now but since its an Head injury the doctor has asked to closely monitor his behaviour for next few days. Thanks to all neighbours who were timely available for help.

I do not know what these incidents actually signify. When I look back now, I think my nephew wouldn't have had his suffering if I hadn't visited his place and spread a mat that lead to his injury. May be my absent minded walk incident caused the two wheeler driver distract and meet an accident. And I might be an Ill Omen that made my on-line friend to suffer an accident just when we met after a long time.

I know this is a very bad thought to share with you people in my first blog, but I had to write what I feel and experienced. And I want apologise all of you in advance for, God Forbid, if you ever face any untoward incidents after reading this.


3 comments:

Thinking said...

hmm....you should have told about you as a bad omen for others at the starting at the post cause as soon as I finished reading....

Someone drop tea on my cloths and not even say sorry...someone theft my pack of nimco from my office draw....I forgot to make the bill payment and now have to pay with panelty...

hmmm....I had just come to the conclusion that you have that intensity to make other people suffer and in this way you are a BAD OMEN....

hmm...how you feel now after reading my conclusions????

Whatever happened to me since morning is true but ofcourse it cant be you.....

Life has its mysterious ways to teach us and to value what we start taking for granted....

Consider...the accident with a motorbike person....it may be to teach you to take good care of yourself as it could be you....Allah forbid...

hmm..for your nephew...it may be a renion made by ALLAH so that you can at the same time pray to HIM about your nephew and to think how valuable your nephew is to you....

hmm...I am sorry I am not a good emphasiser....

Anyhow....dont feel bad about anything.... things just happened sometimes.... justlet them go....

Now....I am going to search everyone's draw....who has the courage to steal my nimco.... that must be a very brave person... hmmm????

The Dumberer said...

Yes Thinking, that is what exactly happened, I'm a partial atheist. My belief is that rather than prayers, it is our actions that decide the consequences we face. But when doctors were treating my nephew I was mentally praying to god to take away as much years of my life time and cure my nephew soon.

Thanks for writing here, your words made me feel better. I feel lightness of being after sharing these incidents with you.

Did you get your nimco? by the way what is this nimco? Sorry if my question is childish, but I really dont know what 'nimco' is.

Thinking said...

hmm..."crispy, crunchy, tasty nimco. The delicious taste is unbeatable and makes you craving for more. A snack, any time all the time!" sorry couldnt find the defination....

Anyways...NIMCO are usually made up of flour and they small figures like finger chips....but harder than chips...they are salty...

Who would have let the NIMCO go away if found free....? No one...so I didnt find my nimco....

hmm....aahh...my nimco....

By the way....PRAYING have lot to do with your life...it can bring a change...in FUTURE which is unseen....

So you should keep your faith on praying too...

thanks !

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